2021.09.20 21:34 EmbarrassedWhiteMale The internet turned us all into weirdos
2021.09.20 21:34 RamenNoodles620 Entitled aunt wants my SO and I to help with their down payment since we did not offer my home
I come from a South Asian background. In my culture, families tend to live in multi-generational homes with their siblings which is nice, but can also create a sense of entitlement to other people's things. My immediate family (parents and brother) grew up in the US since I was in 1st grade. Majority of my relatives lived in our home country until a few years ago when they moved to where my family and I are.
I own a two family home that was purchased over 8 years ago. The home was purchased well before my aunts and uncles moved to the states and they in no way helped with the purchase. For some reason, they thought when they moved to the US, they would be able to live in my home. I said no for various reasons not limited to seeing how they did not take care of their own home back in our home country, no guarantee they would actually pay rent and did not want to mix family with this kind of thing.
Currently, one of my aunts and her family are looking to buy a home. They have gotten rejected a couple of times due to low offers so are now asking relatives to give them cash to increase their offers.
Had dinner at my parents with one of my aunts and some members of her family. At dinner, my aunt asked me if I could help. I told them we cannot. We have a wedding to pay for and our own goal of purchasing a new home in a few years. Aunt responded by saying you really don't have any extra money? Doesn't your SO have inheritance that she could use to help us out? You didn't let us live in your home and we had to rent out elsewhere so you should at least help us out here. To that I answered, just because we have money saved up, does not mean we want to give you $20K. The money we have saved up is for our own goals and emergencies. As far as my SOs inheritance, that really isn't your business since it's not really even my business. That's SO's inheritance and not an emergency fund for people to use.
For context, the only reason why my aunt knows about my SOs inheritance is because my SO mentioned it to my mom once when talking about her grandparents who the inheritance is from. She never mentioned an amount. My mom must have mentioned it to relatives. Not the best idea for my mom to do. None of them even know the actual amount of the inheritance.
Funniest part about all this is that I don't even like these relatives. Only reason why I keep in touch or help out with other things (job applications, help with schooling, taking cousins to the movies) is because my mom asked me to just see them once in a while and because I do care about my cousins who shouldn't be blamed for their parents' shitiness. If they were decent people, we would try to help. However, they are generally selfish and entitled. If we offered a lower amount than requested, they would just act pissy about it.
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2021.09.20 21:34 xX_DuB_Xx Something I randomly thought up of
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2021.09.20 21:34 fladderlappen Nothing beats getting spawnkilled for 30 mins trying to deliver a legendary pelt after a 10 hour work day.
2021.09.20 21:34 saur_whist its not past you anymore its new you, the better one
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2021.09.20 21:34 ZookeepergameFalse75 Happy holidays everyone! 🥮🎉🌕
2021.09.20 21:34 DanMunrod Necesito algo de ayuda, quien aqui ha podido viajar con un perro a Estados Unidos, obviamente desde Colombia, después de las regulaciones temporales de la CDC?
Bueno, mi esposa e hija estuvieron una temporada larga en Colombia y compraron una cachorrita unas semanas antes del anuncio de las nuevas leyes impuestas por la CDC y obviamente ellas tuvieron que viajar de regreso a EU antes de que la cachorrita tuviera todas sus vacunas en regla. Nuestra familia ha estado a cargo de ella, pero ya ella tiene todas sus vacunas en regla y estamos planeando traerla (ya sabemos todo el procedimiento y los riesgos) entonces me preguntaba si alguien de este sub ya ha pasado o sabe de alguien que ha pasado por el proceso, y que tal le fue, esta info. me ayudaría mucho y seria profusamente agradecida!!
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2021.09.20 21:34 natokenichi Hodling Splinterlands cards has been a better store of value over Bitcoin or BNB.
I've been invested for a few months now and my Untamed cards that I bought even a month ago have stored value better then Bitcoin or BNB.
If I sold my collection today, I would have more Satoshi's then I did this entire Bull Market.
Thanks for being the green candle in these red days!
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2021.09.20 21:34 SamuraiSeth Tryin’ out the new Sky
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2021.09.20 21:34 WesternInevitable802 Meme is epik
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2021.09.20 21:34 Joecuronium [A3: Main] Joe's casual: Denmark Delight | A casual stroll through Denmark | THU SEP23 1900 UTC
Not much more to say, no briefing, just show up, I'll make smth happening.
Just put yourselves into reserve so I have a rough attendance idea.
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2021.09.20 21:34 thegreatblazed Imagining the Future of Bristol Western Harbour at Riverside Garden Centre
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2021.09.20 21:34 Aldin_The_Bat [Question] Is it cruel to separate two dogs who have lived 8 years together and are very close?
So basically my sister is moving out and she wants to take one of the dogs with her. The two dogs are not related but have lived most of their lives together (8 out of 9 years). They get jumpy when one of them is taken to the vet or just out on a walk without the other. They seem to be very worried about each other and when one of them is scared (IE fireworks) they cuddle together. Is it cruel to separate them?
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2021.09.20 21:34 JawaScrapper Princess Yui Tuesday the 373rd !! for all things Yui related! (21/09/2021 UK -Unleash Kawaiiness- time)
It is T'Yui'sday, kitsune!
Everything which is related to the princess of dance has its place here, new or old stuff.
Last week thread
Last week favourite post was some nice Yui's lore posted by rickwagner
Congratulation rickwagner! You are now the Ultimate Yui fan for the week!
"Ultimate Yui fan of the week" >> rickwagner you can now wear this flair. As long as you keep the title, you can wear the flair! However, if someone else win the title, you'll have to remove the flair. There can be only one bearer of this flair!
here is the link to the thread by Facu474 where it is explained how to activate a flair, according to your system.
Also let's have a word about da_one1morelight & rickwagner & jiupinkprincess who managed to gain a "most dedicated kitsune" title last week! Well done! Thank you always for the goodies and keep it up!
Part 1 beginner ; Part 2 members questions ; Part 3 Lyrics & Songs knowledge questions ; Part 4 Pochette, Show knowldege & cultural questions ; Part 5 Various questions
I only link the last thread of each month. If you want to reach the second thread of a month (for example) just navigate through them by using the "last week thread" link. Andy1295 Yui'sday threads ; 09/2017 ; 10/2017 ; 11/2017 ; 12/2017 ; 01/2018 ; 02/2018 ; 03/2018 ; 04/2018 ; 05/2018 ; 06/2018 : 07/2018 ; 08/2018 ; 09/2018 ; 10/2018 ; 11/2018 ; 12/2018 ; 01/2019 ; 02/2019 ; 03/2019 ; 04/2019 ; 05/2019 ; 06/2019 ; 07/2019 ; 08/2019 ; 09/2019 ; 10/2019 ; 11/2019 ; 12/2019 ; 01/2020 ; 02/2020 ; 03/2020 ; 04/2020 ; 05/2020 ; 06/2020 ; 07/2020 ; 08/2020 ; 09/2020 ; 10/2020 ; 11/2020 ; 12/2020 ; 01/2021 ; 02/2021 ; 03/2021 ; 04/2021 ; 05/2021 ; 06/2021 ; 07/2021 08/2021 ;
Want to participate or make one of these threads, partially or entirely? Any suggestion? Just PM me! It's always welcome!
And to start the thread, here is an album.
Have a great Yui'sday
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2021.09.20 21:34 stickypistons___ i am so disappointing
2021.09.20 21:34 MarvinTaylor12 [H] $465 Target GCs [W] 80% Crypto
2021.09.20 21:34 Only_at_Eventide How do you come up with names outside of a particular language or culture?
I can build a fantasy world based around a specific culture, but this time around I'm building it from the ground up. I'm confident I can handle most aspects, but the names are stumping me. How do I pick names with evoking a real life culture, creating a conlang, and making them spund bizarre?
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2021.09.20 21:34 Schoschii87 Schaeffler zeigt 800-Volt-Technik für E-Achsen
2021.09.20 21:34 Nygma001 Ops managers
This is more of a rant than anything else. Sorry had to get it out.
Does anybody else have cocky annoying sarcastic egotistical op managers? That say sly shit on the low. I’m sure some of y’all do but goddamn this man is getting on my last nerves.
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2021.09.20 21:34 giganticbirb *insert a funny skeleton pun here*
2021.09.20 21:34 LashawnaCornett $SGO : gold production on the way?
| With inflation going crazy now it is a great time to invest in gold. |
Sonoro Gold Corp. ($SGO.V $SMOFF ) is a junior gold exploration and development company, with properties in Sonora, Mexico.
$SGO trading at only $0.22 which is super affordable especially considering their current position.
They recently released sampling results of their Cerro Caliche project which returned grades between 2.5 and 14.3 grams of gold/tonne from surface rock samples of well-defined vein and gold mineralized structures
With these results, they are on their way to becoming gold producers, and now is a great time to get in before that is solidified
MC is $22.57M
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2021.09.20 21:34 Lost_Tumbleweed_2203 BSC
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2021.09.20 21:34 I_Love_Cyndaquil2 Hiding ants.
So today after I came home from school I noticed some ants on my table, they didn’t seem to be following a line just randomly walking. I thought this was odd as there were no other ants in my house. I turned on the lights to look at them better and they seemed to dart off and hide in the dark shadows of items on my table. I grabbed a book and began hitting them to kill them and I think I got them all but they really creeped me out. Why would they be acting this strange?
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2021.09.20 21:34 CyborgToBe Need an honest opinion. Long time digital artist, this is my first NFT collection. What it needs to be successful? Thanks! CryptoRond. Link in comments
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2021.09.20 21:34 trelleresito If you ask me this is the most overrated unit in this 2021, i still remember when everyone said he was better than the two LF, i would even say UI Goku claps him if you ask me
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