Worried about a friend. Need advice.

2021.09.20 22:35 skiimear Worried about a friend. Need advice.

My best friend has been in a relationship with a narcissist for 4 years. We live within the same city and I’ve never even met him. I can always tell when he’s moved back in because suddenly she’ll never let me come inside when we meet up (he’s changed jobs and moves around the country a bit very much like a serial killer). I assume she won’t let me meet him because she’s afraid that I’ll incite something that she’ll have to pay for. Which is fair, but clearly indicates that she knows how bad he is. She has never admitted to being struck by him, but he throws things a lot and she recently alluded that he’s pushed her.
Apparently he’s actually moving out, not to move somewhere else on a whim but for good (though he’s threatened this countless times and owes her lots of money), but I’m very nervous about the tensions within the apartment and the danger she may be in.
When the video of Gabby Petito came out it shook me up. The way she cries to the police is exactly the way my friend has cried to me. Just inconsolable. She’ll tell me about what’s upset her and then explain how she “pushed him” there. That if she just could be more positive then he wouldn’t be as upset with her. Seeing Gabby Petito cry about having a “mean vibe” made me think so much of my friend I couldn’t bear it. He tells my friend that she has a negative energy and that’s why her own family doesn’t come to visit her (her family is full of narcs too and she’s not bio related to her dad). He gaslights the shit out of her and will tell her that she misremembers things and is losing her mind. Funny how she’s sharp as a tack about everything we talk about and never forgets an important date in any of her friends’ lives.
Yesterday he “wouldn’t let her leave” to go on a walk, because if she disappeared he would be blamed. If something happens to her I will never forgive myself, but she’s convinced she needs to stick around to make sure he doesn’t pack anything that’s hers. I told her that I’ll come pack up her valuables with her and take them to my house so she can stay here for the week, but she hasn’t agreed. I know that she’s hoping to get validation from him before he’s gone, but I know it’s not coming and am very worried about what could be.
What do I do?
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2021.09.20 22:35 bigfatpenguin48 Am I being an asshole by feeling “entitled” to living at home during college? *more details below*

So I’m a freshman in college seeking a pre-med major, and I chose the university in my town (mostly because it’s cheaper but also because I wanted to live at home). My mom told me that I should at least try living in the dorms, which I did for 2 weeks, which then resulted in a total meltdown (it’s very stressful in there for me- super overwhelming, it’s just not “my space”, there’s a whole social scene involved, roommates, it’s noisy etc).
However, my mom had to move back to AK to get a teaching job after losing her job here this spring. In order to keep the house, my sister and her boyfriend (both 22) decided to move into the house & pay rent to my mom.
I warned them that I might have move back home before I even started college because I figured I wouldn’t do well in the dorms. They were very against that, and wanted to turn my bedroom into an office. My mom backed them, saying that they only wanted me to come home 1-2x a week.
My sisters boyfriend understands nothing about autism- whereas my mom is pretty educated and my sister is alright with it too. I told all of them that this is a unique situation where they’re renting the house with my own bedroom in it, so expecting the house to be theirs and only theirs is just kind of selfish.
This has made me super frustrated… I feel like they don’t understand that I have a disability, yes I am low-needs but I still really struggle sometimes.
I tried to live in the dorms, and it was immediately clear that I couldn’t stay full-time in college if I did so (I have a few scholarships requiring me to be full time). Im trying to convince them to be okay with me being there… they say I’m too messy (which is accurate- but only in my room). Meanwhile they leave their stuff all over the place…
Am I the asshole here? Thank you guys…
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So what I wanted to ask you guys is, how do you cope with this or how do you accept the fact that some things will happen no matter what and that we might never know what the answer is? Any tips on maybe how to radically accept this or how to distract myself?
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