Forgiving a Cheater

2021.12.08 13:45 eightysixxedanon Forgiving a Cheater

I caught my girlfriend of a year sexting with a “friend” and broke things off. After watching her cry for an hour in silence and showing remorse, I made her pack her things and as she was doing that I made her stop and offered her a second chance to fix her fuck up and stay.
She swears that nothing happened with that person while we’ve been together but something just don’t sit right. She did openly admit to having sex with that person before but it was way before we ever got together.
The hardest part of this whole situation is now I’m literally second guessing everything and constantly thinking about the messages and pictures I seen they had sent eachother.
As well as thinking how long it would have went on if I didn’t find out, or if she’s still doing it just being more careful to not get caught.
We live together and she works minimal, I work 12 hours a day and 5 days a week. I literally support us in every aspect. I felt betrayed because I’m literally trying my hardest to do what’s best by keeping the bills and mortgage paid, and here she was doing this behind my back.
Although I’m open to ALL input, Before I hear the whole “she cheated and your better off without her” I want to know if there is anyone out there who has been in a similar situation and how they approached it to ease tensions in your own mind.
We’ve invested in a lot together and I don’t want to through it away over a slip up.
What had happened had taken its toll on me mentally to where I even had to call out of work one day because I couldn’t mentally handle it.
Im just lost.
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I've seen a ton of players recently passing around the back in division rivals and its super frustrating
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2021.12.08 13:45 Elliwesis Change Seed Harvest Chance To 60% in A20

Change Seed Harvest Chance To 60% in A20 Currently, the 50% chance to harvest a seed in A20 ensures that any player wanting to farm (even casually) must put points into Living Off The Land. This is because the seed harvest chance is too low that even on average a player is guaranteed to lose seeds without the perk.
For example, if you start with 100 seeds the harvest will net you 200 crops and 50 seeds on average. if you turn all of those crops into seeds you get 40 more seeds. 40 seeds crafted + 50 seeds harvested (on average) is 90 seeds. Bumping the chance to 60% gives you 60 seeds harvested on average, added to the 40 crafted gives you 100 back on average, leaving a player without the perk in a sort of equilibrium.
Not only that but after you put points into Living Off The Land (levels 1 & 2) increasing the seed harvest chance to 60% keeps the seed/harvest ratio the same as in A19 (yes, accounting for the return to seedling as a seed/harvest/plant) so that farmers, on average, wont notice a difference in farm growth starting from just a few seeds.
Living Off the Land 3 is a special case, as the triple harvest in A20 gives back more seeds even with a 50% seed harvest than the equivalent Level 3 In LOTL in A19. This means an increase in seed harvest chance would give an even bigger boost to LOTL level 3.
Overall, I think increasing the seed harvest chance will give players who don't farm a chance to sustain a farm casually, although on average they wont acquire a profit of seeds after turning the harvest into seeds - you might say they cant live off the land. The increase will keep the Living Off The Land perk up to par with what it was in A19 as well as add a bonus to harvest at the final level. The main turn off of the seed harvest chance being 50% is the guarantee to lose seeds with every harvest unless you put points into Living Off The Land.
Graphic showing seed/harvest ratio in A19, A20, and proposed 60% seed harvest chance. Includes all levels of the Living Off The Land Perk.
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Will add ten 9438 8742 3275
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2021.12.08 13:45 mikebiss [PC] [H] TW: Astro-CSX:Inverted [W] 1.2k creds or offers

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2021.12.08 13:45 Humble_Magician_3970 Question about high

For context it's my first experience with psychedelics, I took 5grams of the "lowest" dosage magic truffles available to me. It's been 2 hours and I feel like the high is not what I expected. (I just feel an elevated state of mind)
Should I take more (the 5grams that I have left) or just wait it out? (I've understood the high should last between 3-6 hours according to the official documents on the page)
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On my college i have to write an essay about any topic that is involved with teeth. Do you know any intresting topics like weird anomalies that you can be born with or you can get overtime that i can write my essay about? Thank you in advance and sorry for my english (its not my first language)
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2021.12.08 13:45 drmeanjoegreen 3 on 1. no resistance/response in self defense….but @ 48 seconds…peep it as they almost pulled her hair out by the roots. Pure domination, no doubt.

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2021.12.08 13:45 ShortAlgo $CPIX 75% profitable trades here with a 34 profit factor. Check out the performance of the new signals on the chart. UltraAlgo is on beast mode with a ton of new functionality.

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2021.12.08 13:45 Asoyedit Can i split an if statement in multiple lines?

Hi, complete beginner here
i made an if statement like:

if var=="ciccio" or var=="ciccio2" or var=="ciccio3" or var=="ciccio4" or var=="ciccio5" or var=="ciccio6": 
For better readability, can i split it in multiple lines?
I just use the \ char?
if var=="ciccio" or var=="ciccio2" or var=="ciccio3"\ or var=="ciccio4" or var=="ciccio5" or var=="ciccio6": 
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to increase maokai skill gap, i think nerfing the q damage, radius and line size would be perfect. Hitting both the ring and line should apply something better. Either 2 different damaging parts, hitting the line plus ring slows more (current 99% slow for 0.25->1s?)
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It came about from drug use and then I used cymbalta for like 5 days and now km just like so screwed up. Are antidepressants helpful for this? Is it just depression ?or will am ssri just make me stupid and slow??
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2021.12.08 13:45 Bongus-Spoop-Nuggets How to make a move on a coworker I guess?

I (18M) have a bit of a crush on a coworker (18F). We pretty much don’t know each other. I ask her how she’s doing today, she does the same, I smile at her, she smiles back, etc, but that’s really it. But regardless she is very pretty and from what I do know of her, I like her as a human being. So I’m not sure if “making a move” is really what I mean, but how do I get started I guess?
I have bad social anxiety, but I’m trying to work on that. So could anyone literally tell me how to initiate a meaningful interaction with a person? I’m serious, this is the part of life I suck the absolute most at. Like, if I straight up asked if she wanted to come hang out with me the next time me and my friends have drinks would that be too much considering I don’t know her that well at all? I really am clueless.
Thank you in advance.
TL;DR- How do I initiate relationships? I don’t know what I’m doing.
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2021.12.08 13:45 Tankisfreemason Verified Fan Code works on other tour dates

I bought tickets for Newark, and decided to check the Long Island date also. Used my verified code, and it let me thru. I ended up not getting the Long Island tickets, but if anyone is looking to attend multiple stops of the tour, give your code a try.
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2021.12.08 13:45 OccasionRepulsive391 Can anyone in the Earnin Community help me boost my Max? 🙂 PLEASEE

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